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You are in the unique position to positively impact children's lives every day through your work. You pass on life skills, lessons and philosophies that instill children with knowledge, confidence and a sense of identity. You are a role model as well as a playmate and storyteller who stimulates a child's learning and imagination. You also serve as an important guide to parents, often educating and supporting them in their role.

Playtime Can Be Anytime
Children spend the vast majority of their waking hours at play. Yet play is not simply a way for children to pass time. Instead, it's an important way for children to learn about their world and develop emotionally, socially and intellectually.

From the survey What Grown-Ups Understand About Child Development.

Understand the role of play in a child's development in Play.

Use It or Lose It
We now know that babies who get lots of love and attention actually learn better. This is because brain development depends on the way the brain is used and the extent to which it is used. Every experience excites certain neural circuits in the brain and leaves others inactive. Those circuits that are consistently excited by experience are strengthened while others that are not stimulated are weakened.

From the book Understanding Children.

Learn what you can do to positively impact a child's brain development in Development.

Dealing With Trauma
Trauma can occur as a reaction to an event or events that are exceptionally distressing such as death, injury, violence or the threat of such harm. When children suffer from trauma, their ability to achieve their developmental potential is dramatically affected. In helping a child recover from trauma, it is important to:

  1. Provide strong social support and a sense of purpose.
  2. Create a safe and secure environment.
  3. Understand that the ability to overcome obstacles and adapt under adverse circumstances depends upon the personality of a child.
  4. Offer individualized attention.
  5. Turn to family support.
  6. Ensure support at school.
  7. Consider specialized therapy.

From the teachers' handbook Right on Course.

From the book Understanding Children.

Find out more about trauma in Maltreatment and Trauma.



The Dos and Don'ts of Discipline

Maintaining an orderly environment is a huge challenge for most professionals who work with young children. Although many strategies exist for encouraging appropriate behavior, here are some generally agreed upon principles to adhere to:

Dos
1. Be a good role model.
2. Set clear expectations and explain them to the children that you work with.
3. Be consistent.
4. Provide natural consequences for bad behavior. Consequences should reinforce the behavior you are looking for.
5. Ignore small, unimportant incidents.
6. Give time-outs for cooling off.
7. Use non-verbal communication; such as a stern look or a gentle touch for small misdeeds.
8. Provide a warning or distraction and a chance to amend behavior before disciplining.
9. Give praise for good behavior.
10. Be patient.

Don'ts
1. Don't punish a child for normal behavior, such as occasionally speaking out of turn.
2. Don't punish for accidental mishaps.
3. Don't give unrelated consequences.
4. Don't use physical punishment.
5. Don't make punishment too severe or prolonged.

From the book Understanding Children.

Find guidelines on when and how to discipline a young child in Behavior.


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The Stages of Stress

Children who have experienced severe stress or trauma usually go through three different stages. In association with these stages, students have needs that should be met. If a child has experienced severe stress or trauma, look for these stages and attempt to deal with these emotions to the best of your ability. Note: The stages may occur at very different time periods for different children. The stages include:

Numbing
oSymptoms include shock, sorrow, anger and guilt
Disorganization
oSymptoms include the need to talk about the trauma at length, acute loneliness, disorganized and irrational thoughts, depression, apathy and anxiety
Re-organization
oSymptoms include feeling less intense, improved appetite, new interests and more energy
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