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Grandparents enrich a grandchild's life in so many ways — by playing and reading, by sharing life lessons and family history, by listening and lending advice, by providing stability to the family, and by offering emotional, spiritual and financial support. And with complex issues like diversity within the family, divorce, and long distance facing grandparents today, a grandparent's ability to play an essential role in a grandchild's life is more important, yet more challenging, than ever.

No More Spanking!
Child development research suggests that spanking as a regular form of punishment can lead to a host of outcomes that are detrimental to a child's development. However, 70% of grandparents of young children incorrectly believe that it is appropriate to spank a young child as a "regular form of punishment."

From the national benchmark survey What Grown-Ups Understand About Child Development.

Learn about alternatives to spanking inside Behavior.

Promote Your Grandchild's Brain Development
Because most of a baby's experience involves his relationship with his caregivers, your new grandchild comes into the world eager for interaction. He wants to connect with you, right from the beginning, and it's this emotional connection that helps give him the confidence he needs to learn. From the very first moments of life with a baby, the love and attention you share with him will lay the groundwork for the kind of adult that he will become.

From the video Grandparenting: Enriching Lives .

Look for ways to nurture your grandchild's brain in Development.

Time to Eat!
What and when should you feed your grandchild? Things have changed since raising your children. These days, a newborn baby receives all his nutrition from breast milk (or formula) until about 4-6 months. At around this time, when he begins to show signs that he is ready for solids, a caregiver can begin to incorporate foods such as iron-fortified cereals and single ingredient fruits and vegetables into his diet.

From the book Understanding Children.

Find out more about the foods your grandchild eats — as well as food ideas that will both nourish and appeal to young children — in Health and Nutrition.



Jump In and Play!

Playtime is invaluable to your grandchild — especially when it's with you. Whether you bounce him on your knee or sing silly songs, you're building the foundation for strong, trusting relationships as well as helping him to become a happy and loving person. Use these ideas during playtime with your grandchild.

1. Jump right in.
2. Forget the rules. Explore freely and encourage your grandchild to make believe.
3. Think more like your grandchild. Be creative and pretend.
4. Participate enthusiastically. By taking play seriously, you help your grandchild feel important.
5. Let your grandchild guide her play by allowing her to pick activities, set the ground rules and decide when she is ready to move on.
6. Watch out for over-stimulation. It's important to stop playing when your grandchild has lost interest.

From the book Understanding Children.

From the video Begin with Love.

Understand why children play and how it helps them develop in Play.


Tips on How to Be an Involved Grandparent

You can have a tremendous influence on the lives of your grandchildren and the kind of people they turn out to be as adults simply by staying involved.

1. Nurture them.
2. Play and interact.
3. Share family history and culture.
4. Support your children and grandchildren in times of stress.
5. Nourish your grandkids' self-esteem.
6. Adapt your role according to your family's changing needs.
7. Talk through your differences to minimize conflict.
8. Respect your adult children's choices in marriage and parenting style.
From the video Grandparenting: Enriching Lives.

Find more tips and tools in Grandparenting.


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Understanding Children
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Begin with Love
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Grandparenting: Enriching Lives
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What Grown-Ups Understand About Child Development
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Choosing Your Name

Choosing the name that you want your grandchild to call you is an exciting, yet daunting task. The "Choosing Your Name" downloadable tool will give you ideas about how you want your child to identify you.

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