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The role of dads in the lives of their children has become a hot topic. All of this attention raises an important question: what impact does an involved father have on a child?
Consider this:
- Children with fathers who are involved in their lives tend to develop more self-confidence than children who lack an active father.
- Children with fathers who are involved in their lives tend to be better problem-solvers than children who lack an active father.
Interestingly, it seems that more dads than moms acknowledge the important role that that fathers play on their children's healthy development.
From the survey What Grown-Ups Understand About Child Development.
Because men tend to interact with their children in unique ways, a mother cannot replace a father's role. However, if a father is not part of a baby's life, the mother can involve other men in her life to help fill the void - including her father, her brother, or male acquaintances to whom she is very close.
From the video Begin with Love.
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Involved Father Action Tips
To get involved, dads can: |
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Define their role. Dads do not need to get discouraged that a breastfeeding baby has more time to connect with her mother. There are plenty of opportunities for hands-on dads. Dads can be playmates, diaper changers, bathers and soothers. The key is to play, touch and talk to a baby as much as possible. |
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Create their own rituals. Turn everyday activities like running weekend errands into regular routines for father and child. Although they may seem mundane, simply having consistent one-on-one time will make them special. |
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Take on responsibilities. A dad can pick up his child from child care and get the daily report, help him get dressed in the morning, prepare his meals, or take trips to the doctor. Directly caring for a child goes a long way in earning trust and appreciation from child and mother or caretaker. And, it will make dads feel good about themselves and their fathering skills. |
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Try to balance work and family. While being involved is critical, dads should be careful not to overdo it. Getting worn down does no favors for anyone. Dads should have some time for themselves so that they can refuel and have something to offer their child. |
From the book Understanding Children.
How do you think dads can be more involved?
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For fathers of young children, being involved with their child goes hand in hand with taking an active role in daily household activities. Whether changing a diaper, getting a child dressed, or running to the drugstore, opportunities to participate are everywhere. All it takes is a little thought and effort.
Download our activity checklist and learn ways to make the most of father time: |
| o | Dressing |
| o | In the early morning |
| o | Feeding |
| o | Diapering |
| o | Doing errands |
| o | Late at night |
| o | In the kitchen |
| o | Reading |
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